Has anyone really really compared what you get at a nyc private (55k) vs what you get at an excellent suburban school (eg rye , bronxville). We are not from this area, this is all new to us. We are swept up in the k admissions fever. But really want to hear from someone who has btdt what you think you get at one and not at the other. Figure savings in income tax negate real estate taxes and need a nanny either way both of us work.