1st grader this year in a desired Co-ed. The first choice last year was a SS school which we got an offer in the summer but didn't want to throw away a whole year's tuition so didn't accept. Now seeing DD in Co-ed and still think SS would be a better fit and regretting a lot. Trying to apply out to the SS but not sure if they have spot. Plus needs to ask Co-ed school for school report etc. Would it really jeopardize the relationship with Co-ed and what if we can't get into the SS ?