1st grader this year in a desired Co-ed. The first choice last year was a SS school which we got an offer in the summer but didn't want to throw away a whole year's tuition so didn't accept. Now seeing DD in Co-ed and still think SS would be a better fit and regretting a lot. Trying to apply out to the SS but not sure if they have spot. Plus needs to ask Co-ed school for school report etc. Would it really jeopardize the relationship with Co-ed and what if we can't get into the SS ?

Curious, why do you think SS is a better fit? We are considering SS versus co-ed these days. Thank you
Thank you for the advice! But what if we don't get into the SS. Would we look really bad in the Co-ed and have a hard time in the future?
You can't operate out of fear. Do what's best for your dd. You can just tell co-ed that we think she will blossom better in SS, but obviously this is our first choice co-ed. Seems a much easier sell/conversation than moving to another co-ed.