My husband unilaterally decided to leave corporate life over 5 years ago. He has barely had an income since and through a combination of bad luck and his bad career/investment decisions we have gone through all our savings (except retirement). The thing is, I can deal with this and not hate him. What I can’t deal with is the way he treats me because he is always in crisis. He is defensive and often mean. He is not the dad I thought he would be and he is not the husband I remember. Living cooped up during this time has made things worse. I’m so lonely and so tired of this. I don’t care if we’re broke but I do care about being treated with love and respect. I don’t know what to do.