My 3.5 year old is an odd duck:
-he has not peed at night since about 1 year old
-for the last 8 months if he is not wearing anything on the bottom at all, he will always walk over by himself and pee and poop in the potty chair (has never had an accident on the floor ever)
-however, if he has ANYTHING on his bottom he will always pee and poop in whatever he is wearing (underpants, diaper, pull up, you name it). Being wet and nasty does not bother him AT ALL in this situation.
-bribes do not work. Time out does not work. he says he does not like the potty and will throw a rage tantrum
-but again, if he has nothing on his butt he will always go in the potty. This has been going on for 8 months and the pediatrician and daycare are starting to get judgy with me and I am at my wits end. Help! How do I overcome this last step? He clearly has all the bladder and bowel control he needs and this is some behavior thing.