I was excellent at my job until I was promoted to management and now I'm a bubbling, neurotic mess. So much of my job involves getting people to do things. I'm great at doing the thing myself, but I'm terrible at getting others to do it. I just want to do it myself. I don't want to have meetings about the thing or talk about how we get others to do it or consider how it will affect future things. I think I've risen to my own level of incompetence. I'm earning a great salary, but I'm drowning in work and absolutely miserable. Can anyone relate? I don't know how to talk about this with my boss. I just want to quit.