What do you think about a parenting strategy that revolves around the easiest target/child? I.e., one DC is a bully and terrorizes the other DC, but the parent tells the “victim” to be kind and understanding to the bully, because said bully DC has it harder in life (hard time at school, work and with relationships, etc)? both during childhood and with adult DCs? Do you think this is fair or an effective parenting strategy? Have you seen anything like this in your family?