It's been a rough year personally and for others I know in terms of non-COVID illness and death. I think it's really compounded by the fact that I feel so limited in what I can do to help them in these situations and everyone feeling so isolated from others. No real question or prompt, just wanted to share because it's all getting me really down when I see people having a hard time and I feel helpless.
Yes - I have seen people suffer unspeakable losses and pain. You're a good friend. I'm sure you saying this to them would be appreciated. Remember to take care of yourself or you will have even less to give.
I think it's awesome that you even have the bandwidth to think about relieving other people's tragedies. Many of us are so caught up in our own personal tragedies that getting through it is all we can do, much less figure out how to pull others out of the quicksand. So you're ahead of most and you're awesome for it.
As someone who has has suffered immense losses this year, thank you. Your concern for others like me made my day a little brighter.
My best friend and my grandmother both died last year within 2 months of each other. It was tragic - it is tragic. You seem compassionate and kind. Continue to both grieve and celebrate their lives with the people you love.