She has always been this way but in the last year it’s gotten much harder to take. She’s a selfish person so she’ll call and complain for hours but never wants to help out with others including our parents. She doesn‘t work and she has a full time nanny yet you’d think she was hungry and homeless the way she complains. this week she called me because one of her old friends seems to have ghosted her. I asked if she had been there for her friend instead of always being a downer and now she’s mad with me too. Do people not understand how draining they can be?