OP - following up on yesterday- so I sent the lame card back for edits saying it hurt my feelings. I got a revised card. the card was easy to edit having been written in pencil. I still threw the card out out but at least a point was made. I left the bath mat on dh’s chair (he bought it for himself not me...) and he placed it. It is an improvement over the old one. I gave the plastic eyeglasses holder back to dd and told her to use it for jewelry. it seems to have disappeared so apparently she doesn’t want it either. I kept the cat plate and plastic wine glass. I made everyone watch the SNL Xmas video and told them next year I want to go out for a nice lunch. Thanks everyone!!