My 12 year is a complete disaster with his room. He hoards junk and cannot organize or put things away. I refuse to buy him anything else (he does lots of arts and crafts) until it's clean and he goes ballistic and we fight. Today I went in to put away his laundry and I tripped and fell on wires and junk on the ground. I called him a jerk. I feel guilty about it and never say stuff like this but I am over it. I have labeled and organized drawers for his 'projects' and he doesn't put stuff there. There is literally 15 inches deep of crap on his table. What do you suggest? Also he goes to a SN school and has anxiety so I'm not dealing with a NT kid. It's a fine line between being super strict and understanding his social-emotional issues. So at my wit's end. Any suggestions?