I’ve used a consultant for over ten years for my small business. She does work for me throughout the year but we only need to meet up twice a year to review it, which takes about half a day total. She used to live in nyc but since she moved out a few years ago she asked to stay over at my apartment when she comes to the city. We are friendly but not friends I find this too much. She was here yesterday and stayed over even though we finished up in the late afternoon. She wanted to stay again tonight because she said the traffic to NJ would be bad but I said it wasnt convenient for us. Whats the best way to handle this going forward? I like her work but I feel like she’s over stepping and shouldn’t ask to stay with us at all.