I agreed to be a buddy for a new mom that moved to our town and school this year. We’ve talked a few times and met outdoors twice with our kids. She’s definitely a glass half empty person which I find draining. Also whereas my first grader is my oldest and very young, hers is an only and she’s a single mom so her child is much more mature than mine and often pokes fun at my DS. Can I just slow fade or do I need to tell her why?