I went to a fancy private school in CT, and even though we were very well off, I felt like the poorest kid in the class. Currently have 2 DDs at a fancy UES preschool, and we're applying to K. Our HHI is ~$1-1.3mm / year, so we can afford it but it's not nothing to us. When do kids realize they are less wealthy? Do they feel bad about it? Currently, older DD has lots of friends in preschool, teachers say she is very bright, and she spends all her time asking questions about numbers and science, and I am not even a little worried about her keeping up academically. But don't want to put her in a situation where she will feel insecure as a preteen / teen. Any feedback is helpful - TIA!