I have a divorced friend who is seeing a married man and is actively pressuring him to leave his wife. I think this is morally and ethically wrong, but I'm trying to avoid being openly judgmental. I've known this woman for years and she's (overall) a good and a loyal friend, but she has a dramatic, needy quality about her. She's someone who gives a lot but expects a lot in return from her friends. What does it mean to be "supportive" in a case like this? I can't help but sympathize with the wife (who I don't know at all). Thoughts?