Did you ever come across a secret DH was keeping from you, but the secret was really benign? I can't figure out why DH would be keeping his hobby secret from me, but it just looks like at most it amounts to a waste of time. But the fact that he's hiding it confuses me.
I can't confront him about it without letting him know I snooped.
Does porn count?
What I found is not porn. It's just like a hobby where he works with people around the world on a niche project. He made a special email for it, which I get, as he probably wants to stay anonymous. I can't understand why he's been hiding it from me.
Does he not trust you keeping a secret? Maybe he doesn’t want anybody to know and wasn’t sure you could keep quiet?
Most of us hid our UB addiction.
I hate that DH used to read UB. He would sometimes spot my comments and I felt really violated.
Maybe he just wants something to himself? I have plenty of things I do that I don't share with DH. Everyone needs their own interior life. I feel bad for him that you snooped.
Really? I must be a total loser bc I really don't have any big secrets from DH. Sometimes I watch trashy crap on Hulu that's too embarrassing to mention...woo-hoo. I can't think of anything else.
Is this like an open source project? Maybe he thought you’d say it’s a waste of time so he didn’t want to tell you?
Maybe all the group’s members are anonymous as well and don’t tell wives/girlfriends.
Online fight club
There's no reason to hide it unless he's embarrassed or thinks you won't approve.
What is the hobby?