We live in Chicago and DH wants to move somewhere on the east coast, where we are originally from. He said he is moving whether we go or not. I’m happy here. Have a good, flexible job. DCs are 8 and 11 and doing well and don’t want to move. We are at a great school. One DC has SNs and we have everything we need here, (medical care, etc). DH’s main complaint is property taxes, but we bought during the downturn and can easily afford our payments. We’re fighting nonstop and I’m miserable. Not sure what to do. I think he’s having a mid-life crisis because he says he has about 10 years before he ages out of work. But we are doing fine financially, so there is really no reason to stress.