Dating a super-smart and successful guy for past several months. He literally remembers nothing about me. Doesn't remember that I don't drink alcohol (even though we joke about it often), doesn't remember that I'm a plant-based eater (again, we joke about it often). I've spoken about my childhood to him and then once in awhile he's like - wait, weren't you raised in X situation? I'm like um, these are fundamental things. He's just not into me or he's a moron? What gives? 45 years old!