I know I sound ridiculous, but someone please talk some sense into me. DD (now a college freshman) had a serious BF throughout HS and they broke up last summer because they were headed to different colleges. I know she wants to keep the door open with him (she even recently went to visit him for the weekend), but she is also meeting other boys at her college. I know this is healthy and if you'd asked me a couple of months ago, I'd have said that I *want* her to date other boys and play the field. She seems to be dating a boy (a junior) pretty steadily and I feel like the plan to "explore" could be derailed. I know I need to land the chopper, I just don't want to see her get too serious with someone else right away. Should I say something to her about slowing it down or let it go?