So we are middle class - maybe upper middle - we make about 500k combined, work like crazy and raise a family. Dd got into a private school which we have been saving for since birth and still coming up short, but we will make it work at the expense of other things bc it is a good place for her. I am hearing about other families who have kids at this school and omg!!! We are way out of our league. Please tell me it will be ok!