His every inclination is wrong. Apple sauce on his face...tries to lick it off or wipes it with the back of his hand. Dude! Use a washcloth or paper towel. Forgets to lift the toilet seat lid despite my reminding him about 8000 times. He drops crap all over the place and then I have to ask him to pick it up. Will he ever have any inclination to not be surrounded by crumbs or am I just screaming into the wind and his poor partner 20 years from now will think he was raised by wolves? He's 9 btw.