I started a new job about a year ago and for the most part I’m very happy. the guy that I report to is for the most part great, and we get along and have even crossed over from
the professional to personal and have somewhat of a friendship. But every so often, yesterday was the 4th time this year, he goes crazy Over something minor and accuses me of not being straight forward and trying to back into something. The truth is I don’t even have a moment to explain myself bc he is going so wild. He usually calms down and things simmer down, but I am in my early 50s and I don’t really have the strength for this kind of behavior. any Btdt or tips to keep me sane?