does things like come as say goodnight to DH and the dog but ignores me. Will cuddle with my husband and hug her brother but rarely does that with me. She used to tell me everything now I know nothing. I miss my child but I have feelings too I and I don’t like how im being treated. Any advice?
Ignore and wait it out. This too shall pass!
First, I just want to say that I’m sorry. I‘m sure this is incredibly hard. My DD is still a bit younger (10) but every once in a while will pull what I would call silent treatment if she were older. I it‘s okay to tell her it’s not nice to do and hurts your feelings - particularly if it is saying goodnight to DH and dog and ignoring you sitting right there. I would probably go to her room and tell her privately in the moment and ask if she is okay, if there is anything she is mad at you about or wants to talk to you about, etc. If if you have been super close before it definitely sounds like something that will pass but I don’t know whether That is weeks or months.
Hang in there! It will get harder before it gets better. I have the same situation, but my DD is treating my DH as if he was non-existent. The more he tries, the more she ignores him and it breaks our hearts. No idea what's behind this, but then there are days where she is back to her old cheerful chatty self - go figure. I tried to talk to her, but she does not see/understand what she is doing wrong - technically, she is not being rude/defiant so it's hard. From my friends' experience, whose DDs are now older, this does pass or at least improves dramatically in few years. I think that her emotions are just running away from her and this is the way hormones and stress manifest, but the only way to know for sure is to wait this out...