There's a big difference between wanting to stay in isolation indefinitely, and wanting to maintain the recommended precautions of masks and distancing while socializing. Doing those things is how we can "live our lives" while also not being irresponsible aholes and recklessly spreading a virus that could deprive other people of theirs.
Don’t preach to them about what they should do. Speak from your perspective and keep the tone matter of fact. “we would love to see you however please know that we are continuing to social distance and use masks. If you are good w that, let’s make a plan. If not, I respect your position (even if you don’t) and we will have to keep our friendship virtual for now.”
I would have fun with them. I wear a mask etc, etc, but I don't feel it's necessary at this point anymore + DH&I are v.low risk
I go have fun with them because we feel the same.
This.
Maybe just stay home then. Let them live their lives while you hide?
Don’t preach to them about what they should do. Speak from your perspective and keep the tone matter of fact. “we would love to see you however please know that we are continuing to social distance and use masks. If you are good w that, let’s make a plan. If not, I respect your position (even if you don’t) and we will have to keep our friendship virtual for now.”
Time for new friends.