DH is attending a conference in TX, at a 5-star resort in San Antonio, in his role as Pres of his industry assn state chapter. He is so excited to go, has been missing travel. I am PISSED that he is going, no upside for our family, no pay, only risk. He is actually laid-off anyhow, not working. Trip paid for by the assn. I am so upset, think he is doing this for his own gratification while he risks bringing covid home to us. Thoughts?